I like to schedule my appointments in the mornings. That way, I can get them out of the way first thing and I don't have to 'patiently' wait all day in anticipation for the appointment. Well Brad's work schedule makes it to where if he wants to come, I have to schedule the appointment in the afternoon. We learned yesterday that afternoon appointments SUCK!
My appointment was at 3:30pm. The waiting room was slam pack FULL. We managed to find two seats together (with a table in between them) but there was a magazine and a sippy cup in one of the seats. I politely moved them to the table. Then, I looked up and directly in front of me were three seats. One seat had a hat and sippy cup on it, the second seat was empty and the third seat had a pumpkin seat sitting on it.....with a baby in it (I'm guessing about 4 months old)....with no mother in sight. The baby was screaming crying. I looked around and didn't see the mother anywhere.
About five minutes later, she came around the corner with her three year old hellian. She had been talking on the pay phone! And left her BABY in the waiting room completely unattended!! The sippy cup that was in my seat AND the sippy cup that was in the other seat both belonged to her three year old. The little boy had his pants hanging down almost to his knees...on purpose! He also was roaming around the waiting room, staring at people and getting into everything he possibly could. At one point, the mother noticed that he was missing. She screamed (very loudly in the very echo-y room) for him and when he didn't answer, she went looking for him....again leaving the baby crying.
Ten minutes later, she came back with the screaming kid and slung him down into a seat and ever so kindly told him to sit his *** down and shut the **** up. She then picked up the crying baby to give her a bottle. The kids finally stopped crying for about ten minutes. Then, the little boy saw people coming in and out of the front door and decided he was going to make a run for it. He jumped up and ran toward the door. The mother jumped up and ever so politely told him to get his *** back over to her. He looked back at her, told her NO and ran out the door. So THEN the mother slings the baby back into her pumpkin seat (that was sitting on top of the chair) and ran after the boy. The baby was NOT strapped in and was squirming around, screaming because she was obviously hungry. I came THIS CLOSE to getting that baby. If she would have been left alone for two more minutes, she would have wiggled out and fell onto the concrete floor. The mother finally came back, got the baby and left.
Can we say tramatic? At this point, an hour had passed and we were STILL in the waiting room. I was not happy. Fifteen more minutes passed by before we were called back. My blood pressure was good (shocking after the waiting room drama) and I only gained one pound! I'm so glad! Noah's heartrate was 148bpm.
Then my doctor came in. I told him about the all-day-every-day Braxton-Hicks I have been having and he said that it was a 'necessary evil' and they just helped push him down into position. Ok, I'm good with that.
Then as he was checking me, I asked him if I had to be dilated to be induced. He said, "Well if you needed to be induced because of toximia or another medical condition, we could do it now. But if you just want to be induced, you need to be closer to your due date and have a favorable cervix. You don't have either of those right now." [Insert rage of fury]. He said that he wouldn't induce me any more than a week before my due date and with the progress my cervix is making, I'm most likely going to deliver very close to my due date...not before.
I was NOT HAPPY. I know, I know. He needs to stay in until he's ready. I just need to be patient. The time will come when the time comes. It's almost over. BLAH BLAH BLAH.
Of course I want a healthy baby. But I am SO SICK of being pregnant. Noah will be full term tomorrow, so let the games begin. I am going to walk my legs off and have sex, sex and more sex. I am OVER IT! I am down for just about anything but the castor oil. Do yall have any other suggestions or sure-fire tricks that worked for you??
Friday, January 22, 2010
Doctor's appointment
Posted by Allison at 9:37 AM
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My mom was a month overdue with me. I was due October 1st and wasn't born until November 1st. I know doctors don't let you go that long anymore, thank goodness - can you imagine how SHE must have felt? - but what did it for her was walking. She went trick-or-treating with my brother and went into labor, finally, giving birth to me - all 11 pounds, 3 ounces of me - a few hours later. Naturally. With no meds. She should get an award of some sort, no? LOL
By the way, my son was 10 days overdue before they finally induced me. And he weighed almost 10 pounds. Pushed him out with 2 big pushes. Guess I sort of had a "Get OUT of here" mentality!
Wow, I cannot believe that story...unbelievable!!
I know exactly how you feel- don't we all! Anyways, when I was sick of being pregnant I literally planned a whole day around getting Jack out. I had a chiropractor who also did acupuncture so there were two spots: the webbing in between the thumb and inner ankles that he did accupuncture on late in the afternoon. The next morning, I walked to the store and ran up and down a few hills in the park. That afternoon (after a nap) I jumped on a trampoline which helped, but empty your bladder before hand! By dinner around 5 I was having more consistent contractions. I went home to shower and finish the Ole Miss game I had recorded. My waterbroke AS I stepped out of the car (10pm) and Jack was born a little after 1 am. Easy Peasy:)
GET THE DRUGS:)
Drive down a bumpy road
I WISH I had advice on how to get him out. I just hope Noah isnt like Trevor and decides to make you overdue. I know youre miserable, but really try to soak in these last moments of him inside you. Pretty soon, he will be kicking you from the outside!!
Wow, that waiting room story is insane! Some people.... *sigh*
And I would love to tell you something that works, but I tried just about everything (except castor oil) to naturally induce labor, and NOTHING worked!! I was induced 4 days before my due date.
I know you have probably heard this a million times, but enjoy it while you can, because once baby Noah gets here, the first few weeks are gonna be rough!!
Wishing you a safe delivery! Can't wait to see pics when he gets here!
Hi...I have been following your blog for some time but never left a comment.
I read your posting for today and wanted to share with you my birthing story. My son is now 21 months old and when I was 36 weeks I got a bad flu. I had contractions and they gave me shots to stop them. I thought they would deliver. At 37 weeks he was so low he was sitting on a bone that would hurt me so bad. I also had many braxton hicks contractions. My Ob/Gyn was very supportive but really wanted me to keep going. At 39 weeks I was induced and it was a great labor and delivery. However, now I really wish I would have just been a bit more patient and waited. We are trying for baby number 2 right now and as much as I wanted to be DONE and just wanted that baby OUT I really am going to allow my body to go into labor naturally. I am on a moms message board (momslikeme.com) and I hear many similar stories of moms that are just plain DONE being pregnant and want to be induced. Many of us that were induced now really wish we would have allowed our bodies to go into labor on its own. I know it is hard and you are SO excited to meet your little guy but hang in there! I know how you are feeling- not sleeping, peeing every minute of the day, tired and exhausted, can barely move!
Induced or not- hang in there and Congrats!
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